Celebration Served To Its Purpose

Well writing this blog started with my grandma being sad on Diwali which again is festival of lights.

Any festival or a function should be celebrated from heart, that’s when the celebration gets its own definition.

I could not stop myself from asking her the reason for her silence.
When I asked her the reason, she replied me back saying there were times when people used to come from far distances for celebrating Diwali together, even though there were 2 or 3 buses then to that village. They used to come together ,purchase clothes and requirements, prepare sweets at home , oil bath , prayers together, kids playing together and then chit chat conversation while having food and having fun in that. And when they are leaving, just saying please write to us or do a STD which meant a safe journey back.

She again compared it to the Grand arrangements what I had arranged for my family this time.
She told me,” In today’s world, you give a message in phone. Not even a phone call to them to invite and may be you call that’s a big thing. And they come in their own cars getting all their clothes. Again they may forget their inner wears, but they won’t forget their mobile phones, chargers and earphones. Even if both are missed, they would instead repent for not bringing their gadgets and not for their inner wears.

They bring sweets also from Sweet stalls. Only kheer is prepared here. Kids are busy with their I-pads and tablets in gaming, not even one talking to each other. Elders busy in their mobile phones still talking about when they will reach back and about business conversations. And ladies are busy watching some new movie which has been telecast on TV. And as festival gets over, they are all in hurry that they don’t even say proper good bye to everyone. And they leave for their respective homes.

I just thought for a minute that what she was saying was just happening right in front of us.
I n my grandma still had that option to change the celebration mode of 2013 Diwali from gadget Diwali to happy Diwali.

I just asked everyone to assemble in our drawing room and asked them if everyone could give their phones, tablets and laptops to me for a minute. They asked why? I told them the reason. May be they too felt that. We switched off all our gadgets and celebrated just like what my grandma wanted us to do it. ? And at the beginning everyone was a bit uncomfortable, but they all could do it and just do whatever my grandma instructed them to do because all I cared was for that smile to appear on my grandma’s face.

I am happy that I could do it. As we forbid good bye to everyone, my grandma was happy that her grandson had tried something for her and I was successful in getting that smile on her face.

Even these many years, may be even I had forgotten that we were missing something. What we are missing is ourselves and replacing with gadgets. The best thing to do according to me is serve the purpose of the occasion. That’s when you can make your loved ones smile.

I just believe that there might be someone who is trying to see that purpose of celebration is served in what we do. Let's not make them disappointed.  

Diwali which is festival of lights should not make people's heart and mind dark because lack of knowledge or lack of understanding. 

Serve the Purpose. You have your loved ones with you.

Choosing a Career between Talent and Forcible decision

There are some things in life which come back to you no matter how far you go away from them. There are times when we actually recognize them, respect them and give a special value to that in our own lives. But at times it happens to be such that we don’t recognize them and fail to value those things. No matter whether it’s Career, Luck, Money, Love, Friends, Joy, Education, Goals etc.

 It’s not always true that we chose the wrong field as career because the field in which we were interested dint have money or career. It’s that we failed to recognize the money or career in it. It depends on how much is he/she dedicated to that talent and their hard work towards achieving it at the cost of no matter what.

Everyone is having his/her own talent. A person should know how to become an expertise in that field and give the best of it which not only keeps him happy and lead peaceful life but also encourage many more to get on their interested field and succeed their lives.

Success follows those who follow their heart.

That’s the reason for the success of every artist, sportsman, scientist etc.

One needs to recognize that. But it so happens that people fail to recognize it in their early lives. They instead choose to get into work in other fields and earn some good money and do work on their passion in their latter part of life. It may be after resigning from job at 60 or having some good money in wallet and try to achieve it then.

Feeling of being lost in one field because of being forced by parents, family etc. won’t help anyone take anywhere. We just pat our back saying we are advanced, but just looking at the history we find the parents in kings rule supporting their kids in their interested fields. 

At times there has been lack of communication between parents and children about their lives. Its parents who are being decision makers. Parents decide that their kid should learn karate even if kid is interested in kick boxing or their daughter is interested in violin, they put her through singing classes. This article is just to make you understand that don’t force anyone in their career because they would always blame you for every failure they come across in the path they are leading which you guided them. Instead talking to them about what they have an idea of being in life is a better option.

Because a person accusing you later in some part of life saying you ruined their artistic career, it’s a painful thing to bare. 

Life is like a Mirror !!!

The last thing anyone could do in this world is use 2 words

Sorry

Thank you.

Life becomes beautiful by doing so...

It’s not about you really giving a damn or not... 

It’s about how much the person is worth to u and may be it can add a value to you and to that person...

Life may turn from rags to riches or vice versa...

But there is a way out, i am taking an example of person whom i know to .

There is this uncle of mine who had this presence of mind to be down to earth by using this 2 words whenever necessary and the change in him in this decade was his assets of 10, 00,000 is today worth at least 10, 00, 00,000 and the good part to learn from is he respects even the watchman of his company by greeting them and i believe that's what has taken them so high and the 9 out of 11 workers still work with him  whom started working with him when business started and its not only for the good pay,but a relationship of boss employee isn't limited. Its a family kinda feeling between them.

One needs to cultivate that for something nice of his own.

We too learn greeting till high school, yeah may be sometimes even till the college... But there comes an attitude once we pass 18... I’m not saying it’s the way it works. But it’s always good to have respected the others around us. And a smile on the face if possible... That’s all it takes... because people around us are like mirror…

You annoy, you get annoyed

You smile, you get a smile back

as far image is concerned it was source of google to just get a smile on your face with fun filled.. Cheers..

Money Changes Love!!!

My friend invited me to his business anniversary function on 10-4-2013 and i was happy to see the success of the firm as it had seen the efforts and not just sweat but blood too!!!

Coming to his introduction,
His name is Arjun and lost his father when he was 15 years old and he was in 10th grade and was in no idea of what was gonna happen next??

He has a little brother who is physically challenged and its necessary that one needs to with him and now he had given that responsibility to his mom and finished his 10th grade with good results and now for their food,all they had was a factory which was having a good run and was earning well.
Arjun's uncle then pretended to be good and acted as if he had come to rescue them.
Arjun had fallen for a girl studying in the same college and it had already been 2 years of relationship.
The couple looked as if they are made for each other and they were so close that even their parents looked separated.
By now uncle had spoilt the business and the family lost the business and was in huge trouble.
Arjun was now tensed about feeding the family and he even shared it with her and she responded well saying she would stand with him no matter what and this made relationship even more closer. But god wasn't completely over with screwing arjun's life i guess!!!
He couldn't spend time with her and now she had got new flirts from others.. oh thanks to social media..
She slowly parted and had left him completely. And this is love of 2012...!!!
He tried his best to get her back as he wanted her either by hook or crook.. somehow,...

but now she wasn't even ready to pick his call..!!!

He would find it difficult to even roam out because he had filled her within himself and now was in trouble that he used to remember the moments he spent with her in that place.. He came to decision to kill himself and end it all..!!!

His friends who got to know about this helped him out by motivating  and talking about his mom and brother and after long discussion and briefing, now he was better and as he was about to finish his degree, his another uncle had offered him partnership in a multi cuisine restaurant and bar. And as he started, it was difficult as goons coming ad drinking and not paying the bill,Goons hitting him.

But he felt this as less painful compared to pain she had given him. Blood bleeding out of his mouth by goon's hit was of no care to him and now he had decided to live for family and not for himself.

As days passed the business started prospering and after 3 years i.e; now he owns 17 such bar and restaurants in various places in state and had called for success party.

When asked that he still loves her... He says " Whole my life " !!!

All bars are named after her..

I pity the girl who ditched gem...!!!

Time killed my chances

There are some enemies in our lives whom we never take care off...!!!
Well, some of us won’t find it out until their death bed.
One which needs to be taken care off is TIME.

First with us blaming someone else for mistake of ours own by wasting our own precious time.
Second with doing something what others ask to do by assuming that they are better than you.
Third, of course is by wasting your time by waiting for the right moment.

We do mistakes by wasting our precious time by doing something our friends or relatives asked us to do. But before doing anything it’s always good to question to your own self that “can you..?” If you get a positive reply from your side, try it some 3 times and if same thing continues, kick start the purpose and you can achieve what you have desired for. Blaming them because that precious time has passed away is not right because they might have tried to help you in the way they thought or felt about your decision.

If you ever felt that what your friends or close ones gave was a good suggestion, then you have no right to ask him at the end if end up as failure because it was you who took decision.

The time never comes back once you lose it. Best example was taking a stupid decision and leaving a pretty girl who was so close to me in all your high schooling and choosing a gal who was not at all mine; now falling behind her and not even able to get to her is really a bad condition of any human. But it’s all because of me. Well now, I feel matured..

hope to get her.. because loved her like anything..

dEsTiNaTiOn - aGuMbE

A small trip to my native in my new dio ( 375 kilometres). It was fun and this pics are just for thanksgiving to mother nature for such a wonderful gift from her.

The Holy One or The .........

The main reason behind writing this post was my eyes getting irritated and frustrated by people who are looting money in daylight. But no one even questions them.  Not even politicians dare to do so. They barely can recite Bhagavad-Gita and they make us believe that they are in contact with Holy one (GOD).

Yes, I am talking about the fake swamiji and sanyasis who are earning millions of rupees in the name of holy one. In today’s world a yoga teacher aged 35 may not be capable of owning a bmw or Mercedes or audi if he is living normal life. But he can get every luxury product he desires if he wears the orange cloth or khaavi(which at times was used by enlightened ones) . It has become a fashion now and you wear it and then do your profession, you earn 1000 times more than before.

Having an affair with actresses is possible now with money they have and finally scolding that swamiji and searching for another. What are we doing..?

I personally saw a guy who was a just pass student in B.M.S (Ayurveda) a decade back suddenly becoming a most famous Ayurveda pandit in Karnataka. Lemme tell you guys one thing, ask any household in Hassan,madikeri,shiwmoga,chikmaglur,udupi,uttarkannada and dakshin kannada about a illness. They will give you the better advice than this guy whom I am referring and what makes me sick is he lives his kid and wife as publicity stunt to say that he has become a sanyasi and now she will be quiet because her mouth is closed with bundles of money for not revealing about this fact. And zero to hero of this guy is just because of media guys. I know him barely able to pay rent of his own clinic in his locality and today with just help of media; he owns more than 50 crores and is directly in touch with chief minister of state. Holy cow. And all I would ask is

“Why do you want a sick Ayurveda doctor to clean your heart by spiritual advice who personally is not clean from his heart?”

Wake up before its late. They are enjoying in our money. God is everywhere. Find him in your kid’s or parents happiness instead of spending on their happiness. 

"kaalaya tasmai namaha"