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Sorry friends…… J J J

Couldn’t add any post for last few days because of exxaaaammmsss!!!!
This is an incident that happened during the study holidays for my exams…

I get up very late when I don’t have classes. But that day my mom forced me to get up early to get her some medicines. I was really angry on my mom for waking me up. When I entered the washroom I saw a sparrow trying it’s hard to group some small sticks to build its nest. I was totally pissed off as it was making the washroom as its home. I was into a perception that it would make the washroom dirty and it was already 3 days over since it had started piling things on for its construction. Me, who was totally angry on my mom showed my anger by throwing those things out of window when it left to collect things. When it came back, it had nothing left for itself but the sticks, grass etc which it had to work hard to collect them. The way it looked at me, I just can’t forget that. L L

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Because it almost made an expression which reflected “you cruel devil...Today you have disrespected my hard work…you’ll understand when someone disrespects your hard work...”

By then my mom entered the scene and screamed at me as if I had killed that sparrow because my mom loves animals, birds a lot… by then I had understood my mistake… I went down to bring that sticks and grass which I threw out. When I brought those things back and kept them at the same place, bird dint even bother to touch it. Now I almost felt like killing myself because its silence itself had made me feel guilty. Bird which stayed there till then now flew away out of window. The guiltiness I am feeling is still hurting a lot inside...the intention of writing this was to just mention to you that never ever behave rudely with those kinds of animals. They would take a small amount of place in your house or office or wherever… just try to be a better human because I have experienced how much it hurts and the guiltiness felt by that.I don't want my friends to experience that worse....

bAd dReAm

Dreams don't have any limits or full stops...It all goes the way your creativity and your thinking...People differentiate dreams to 2 sorts. One is what you want to be or wish to be, it’s more of a goal; but its referred to as dream because at the end of the day that's what he always wanted to be which is more of a logical. Second is completely what you get when you are asleep..

WIKIPEDIA'S DEFINITION OF DREAM IS 

“Dreams are successions of images, ideas, emotions and sensations occurring involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep.”

I am sharing one such dream which happened to understand myself better...

This dream occurred on 31^st of august month; well it was a night dream and the dream was –

“I was walking through the streets of Banashankari, Bangalore in my college uniform and I saw man who was walking approximately 5 foot in front was planning for something as he was giving some signals to another guy who was on a splendour bike who was pretending to be talking in phone. But I did nothing but to see these 2 guys and just 10 seconds after it happened to be, the guy who was walking in the front suddenly snatched a lady’s chain and the mobile which apparently fell when he snatched the chain and within in no time, the guy ran and got into the back seat of splendour bike and the guy who was riding the bike took no time to accelerate and escape; I was completely stunned and dint know what to do? The lady was screaming in kannada “help”… 2-3 people even took their bikes and went on to get those chain snatchers… It was complete mess up and as the police came, I just told cops that I saw those snatchers and I was asked to come to police station and I was taken to a notice board where some photos of snatchers had been stuck and I was asked whether was that snatcher’s photo there in that board and I observed the board for 5 minutes and found the photo of one of among the 2.But the police started scolding me and started saying how can a man who died 3 days back come and snatch the chains and i was in trouble now...but I was in confusion because I had recognised the accurate person whom I saw snatching the lady’s chain and when police asked her about this, she replied saying I din’t see their faces properly.
I just wanted to get out of there somehow…So I ended up showing someone else’s photo… But the reaction of police inspector was worse as he started hitting me and asking a constable to put me behind bars and all…”

I got shocked and got up… that was all I saw in the dream.

But I dint even bother to know why I got such a crazy dream because it’s not unusual to get such dream because everyone of us getting such irrelevant dreams of ghost, devils and all…

It was on 7^th of September when I actually went to my father’s hotel to collect rent since we have leased it out to one of my family friend… I directly went to hotel after finishing my classes of that day…Now I was feeling that this incident has occurred previously in my life, because everything was same to same as it happened in dream. I was wearing uniform and the same man was walking in front and guy was in a bike and lady was also walking with phone to her ears, may be speaking to someone on phone…Now I was confirmed that dream has become true and I was in a dilemma to catch the snatcher’s hand (if possible) or to note down the bike’s number or to see snatcher’s face properly so that I can identify when their photos in notice board if it is there… In next 20 seconds, he stole her chain and both of them escaped in bike, I who was looking to note down shockingly witnessed the bike’s number plate to be blank and same 2 others took their bikes to chase and same police inspector came and started enquiring about it…  

Since I couldn’t note down the reg.number of the bike, I dint want to get back to police and say that I saw those snatchers face since I saw everything in dream had happened just in front of me minutes back because I felt that same police station experience which I saw in dream would continue, hence just walked as if I dint even know anything and reached my hotel and got back.

I now feel guilty that I should have helped police. But I wanted my safety first, and even was afraid that it would happen too because everything had occurred same to same….

This day played the best role in my life as it was the first time in my life which occurred as dream come true…Really feeling shocked even now when I remember it…

mEmOrAbLe dAy

This is an incident that happened 2 weeks ago which would make me remember this day forever.

So thought of sharing with you people...It was about 10'o clock in the morning and I was having my breakfast in my dad's hotel since it was a Sunday, my duty is to visit my hotel to look after the accounts of that full week which my mom has assigned me. Just then a old woman aged about 70-75 came and asked for the owner.My manager brought her to me and introduced her to me,then she started her speak which made me delighted because she had brought an food order for more than 40k for a day's lunch which could easily fetch me minimum of 10-15k of profits.I called my manager and asked him to bring a coffee for her and asked her to sit and i replied to her saying "Don't worry ma'am.Our food is known for its taste and quality.No delivery charges."She asked me whether my name should be added in invitation for which i replied "It's not required" because all i wanted was money.She praised me saying "Sir,now-a-days people do donation for publicity and you are saying you don't want that too..you are kind hearted ,leave happily for hundred years..
I was in a mixed expression of shock and confusion and i almost took few minutes to react for it.She started again saying that "ok beta..guess you are not interested in this..i'll leave and take this card..By god's grace if your mind is changed call to the number mentioned in this card".
The moment she said this,i asked her to wait for 2 minutes and took my dad's photo out of my wallet and closed my eyes for a moment and started thinking what would my dad would if he was there at this situation as i do it before every single decision making process.I felt that i should donate the food because that's what my dad would do if he was there.I opened my eyes with a smile in my face and i was suddenly shocked to see the tears in that woman's eyes and smile in her face.She said me, "Just like your father" for which i was emotion-less and confused and i asked her why did she say that.She told me"I'll tell you later."I asked her that when actually she wants this food and all for which she said she wants us to do it on next month and i promised her that we will do it and also asked her can we also donate it today to the kids because on the day of function we cant stay and be with kids for long time as crowd will be more for which she was very happy and slowly whispered "Not a problem" for which i was very happy and the very next moment i asked my manager who was standing next to our chairs to get ready with the food by 12 noon.All i could witness was a smile still lying in that old woman's face which actually made me happy because first time in my life i was feeling as if i am doing something great.I asked her to wait for an hour and would she have any breakfast? for which she nodded saying no and opened her mouth saying i have had it before coming to the hotel.I went out to look at the bills and accounts for that week.An hour passed by then and i called for the taxi and requested the woman to be seated and asked my hotel servants to bring that food in a van to the ashram by following the taxi.Ashram was a ten minute drive the hotel and we reached there in by no time and i walked with the woman into the ashram and she gave me a album to have a look at.As i turned the pages one after the other,i was shocked to see my parents standing with those small orphan kids and some pictures in which my dad making small kids sit on his lap and making them eat.By then,my eyes were filled with tears thinking the good heart they have is not with me..The old woman kept her hand on my shoulder and said this is what i wanted to say you in your hotel,but couldn't say it there.She also added " Tiger always gives birth to a tiger and not a fox...now don't be sad for the past.Distribute it yourself". I was bit happy by her words and asked my hotel boys to start distributing the food.But while distributing the food,i really felt pity for those kids there.I became very much emotional seeing those kids who have almost forgot what is love,parents,b'day's,etc...Even we had food with them and took a pic with them and i promised them saying "whenever you people are in need of anything,ask me..and i 'll come next month with food and no need of my name in invitation card."I took her blessing while returning back saying Don't worry.But to be frank,i don't even know why did i say that..But i am happy for my small contribution to those..After returning home,i shared this with my mom for which she was very happy for what i have done...
Well i know what i did was not huge contribution o something like that.The reason for this blog was just to ask you people that if you have anything more which you are not using,just give it to such institutes and not to some one who come door to door people to collect because who knows whether they are selling it or giving it to those kids.So plz frenz do visit and do a small contribution for it..That's all i could say for now and the pics are not my clicks,its Google pics since i dint carry my cam there.. I apologize if i have bored some one by this post..All i could say is thank u for reading and a sorry for those guys who felt bored because 
u r a cold blooded animal !!!!!!

lOvE iS iNjUrIoUs tO hEaLtH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is true love story which i gotta hear from my friend...

When i actually heard this story,i too dint believe that how can something like this happen in any one's life...

I thought my friend was lying and i asked him to stop bluffing.But one Sunday evening,my friend took me to his house.A guy who is somewhere around 24-25 opened the door welcoming us in.He asked us to get seated and asked my friend who is this ? pointing at me. My friend introduced me to him and told the reason why we were there for.He asked his maid to bring juice for us and suddenly he started gazing here and there.In fractions of seconds,we could witness tears in his eyes.At that particular moment,i started questioning myself that why the hell did i ask that question,but after all i had been to him only for that and if i don't get that information,then there was no reason for us going to his house.After a minute or two,he got up from his chair and asked us to follow him.He took us to his study room where we could see a line " y did u do this to me?" written all over his walls in spray paints and some stuff which made me asking myself that whether he is abnormal or psycho or something like that.But suddenly he turned back to us and asked us to get seated in the bean bag which were placed here and there in his room and opened his laptop and showed her photos and the room was so silent and calm without nobody speaking,instead having a look at the photo's.
He suddenly broke the silence by saying "Her name is swathi".He said us that i'll tell you the whole story after our dinner.I called my mom and said that i won't be coming and said combined study and doing assignments for which she was surprised to hear that words me and studies. She was happy to hear and said come early in the morning for which i replied "ya,sure" and we had our dinner.After finishing our dinner,we headed back to his room.As soon as we reached the room,i asked him to start his love story and end it by morning for which he started laughing and replied saying ok.Let him explain his story himself.
"I am from a middle class family and i couldn't expect anything more than fee's for my studies as my parents had lost all money spending on my sister's marriage and a traditional gifts to my brother-in-law.Sometimes my parents found it difficult even to pay for my fee's as we had done some loan for sister's marriage and all my dad's salary used to go to that interest.I passed out with 72% as my percentage in my 10th std.My parents were sad instead of being happy,but they had a reason to be so as they were worried about.Their worry was about which college should their son join and how much would colleges ask as donation and all.But finally they were relaxed as i got a seat in one of the colleges near my house and even the fee was very much affordable.And i felt like my dreams were coming true because always loved to wear color dress as college dress.And finally the p.u classes commenced with finding some of my school friends in the same college and i found one chick for whom i was attracted a bit because she was really gorgeous,but i controlled all my emotions within myself because by then some of my friends were saying that they had crush on her.And the classes continued well,but i found it difficult to understand trigonometry and physics problems.So joined for tutorials for which my brother-in-law paid the fee and i found 8 guys from our own college tutorials and since i had joined late to tutorials,my tution teachers suggested me to take to notes from fellow mates and they even suggested that swathi's notes would be good.I agreed for that,took notes from her and copied the same notes to my book and returned the book and thanked her for giving her books to me.In the tests conducted in college,she had secured second rank whereas i was in 4th position.But my like for books increased and kept a target of securing first position.My hard work din't go for waste as i had secured first position and the same swathi had lost first position by 2 marks for which she was angry on me for which she came and said "Don't be so proud of yourself because your happiness won't stay for more time",for which i replied "f**k off" and she went crying from there.But i then felt that i shouldn't have abused a girl in that manner and wanted to ask sorry.I thought i would apologize in tutorials,but she hadn't come to tutorials that day.So took her number from her friend and called her and apologized for which even she apologized saying that she also had done a mistake.I said it was ok and said bye and hanged the phone down.When i reached my home,i found my sister who got a news that i had topped in mid term exams from my friends who had already bought a cell-phone for me.Till that moment,i was so much into studies but the moment i got the mobile,my brain acted like one of monkey's.I called all my friends saying that i got a new cell phone as a gift and after calling all,i felt like even calling her(swathi) and giving my number to her.So after lot of thinking sent a text to her saying that "hey,this is bharath here!!! this is my num" for which i even got a reply back saying "ok,stay in touch..i'll txt u ltr"
You won't believe it guys,we became so close that we were almost 18 hours together(6 hours in college,2 hours in tutorials and rest 7 to 8 hours on phone) and thanks to bsnl for that as it was 10ps/min for any one number for which i had selected her's as that number.But we were still good friends and nothing more than that.But there was a guy called abhi in our class who was behind this girl who even went further doubting about us and warned me that i shouldn't talk to her nor see her for which i opposed and said you have no right to say that for which he said i'm her boyfriend.I couldn't control my laugh anymore because swathi used to crack jokes about him with me and we used to enjoy and i called swathi to come to college canteen and she said that he is not her boyfriend for which i started laughing loudly.He interrupted to our laugh and asked me " who are you to her?". I replied saying you don't have to know it for which he asked me "Is she your gal"? and started laughing for which she answered "Yes,he is my guy.do you have a problem?".
The whole canteen suddenly became silent and all including me were shocked to hear that,hearing to that abhi and his guys went out of canteen.I was completely shocked to her reply to those guys,but suddenly swathi said sorry and she had to say like that to escape from those guys.Now i felt what she had done was better than saying no which would end up her in trouble.And we got seated in canteen and thought of going to ghajini movie which had just released then and even she ended up agreeing and we planned for the movie that weekend and watched it in pvr cinemas and had our lunch at mcd. By 6 in the evening,we were at our homes.But strange thing was i was feeling like talking to her,and again in the night we spoke for 4 hours or so and ended up sleeping phone still on.This situations became very much common as days passed by and on 31-12-2005 at night 12,she called me and said "I thought you would tell me.but you never did that.But i can't control myself anymore Bharath.i love you"
i said love you too!!!!!!!!
Days passed and we had finished our 1st pu
1st pu exams got over on feb20.And we had got summer vacations which we din't want and joined to the same tutorials as this tutorial people had said that they would start 2nd p.u tution classes very early.
Then the 1st p.u results arrived,and we had ended up being in 5th and 7th positions in final exams as we had never touched the books because all we had in hand was a cell phone.
We spent all time roaming and having fun with one another.As we used to speak in the night time,we used to speak very softly so that no one else hears it except her and that too in my room with room locked from inside.My parents who had got a doubt about me for my changing behavior actually observed me for 2 days that where do i go and with whom do i roam and all these stuff...and i was caught by my parents and my cell phone was taken from me and i was helpless.The next morning 12 p.m she was caught by her parents for this matter..
Well, actually she din't get caught by her parents as it happened in my case.She was caught by her parents by a bsnl sim.I had sent a message that "i love you swthrt" at night 1a.m.But due to some network problem,the message wasn't sent then.Instead it was sent the next morning at 12..real culprits were b.s.n.l..Her parents complained to Principal and my parents were called by principal.In principal's room,we were asked what actually happened between us and we both told the thing what actually happened.My parents as well as her parents ended up saying "if u don't leave this love,we'll leave this world" for which we both said we would leave anything on this earth,but not parents.
2days after this happened my dad received a call from her father saying that why is your son still sending messages and i actually told that i had sent it 4 days back.Not now!!! It's b.s.n.l problem......
Month later abhi and his friends ended up hitting me black and blue for which i called up my friends and took my friends to abhi and his friend's houses and cleared the account which they had given me when i was alone.
I totally lost interest in studies,started neglecting studies and wasted my precious time.
But then saw her with one of my best friends getting close and witnessed him kissing her in a park.I interrupted their kiss and scolded both of them and came out crying.By then 2nd p.u exams had arrived.I finished it with 67% which was very less and then started working for my dream.Did my bbm in christ college.
Did my mba in wales university,u.k..I started my own company from which i have earned crores and investment for business was from a loan because parents din't even have a extra penny left over after fulfilling day-day needs.Today i am successful.My parents are happy.I even gotta hear that my friend who had cheated me died in a road accident a year ago which he deserved for cheating his friends.We (me and swathi) haven't spoken after that incident.Infact never met after that.Today she is working in a software company which pays her 25000rs per month whereas i earn a net profit of 25,00,000 per month."
Well...
To be very frank
But still somewhere my heart beats faster when i see her,speak about her...





By the time he actually finished his story,it was something around 4 in the morning.My friend was snoring as he was hearing it the third time And the names have been changed because he din't want to his name and his girl's name to be told...I typed this story thinking that my frenz would be interested in such story's and the one which is 100% true!!!!!!!!

lOvE vs fRieNdsHIp

Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection whereas Friendship is a form of interpersonal relationship generally considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations.so it is sometimes hard to distinguish between a platonic friendship and love. It is especially hard when one party feels the friendship and the other feels love. Friends can certainly love each other. But it is when a more sensual love enters the friendship that things can be a bit more complicated.

It is imperative to understand that if you are in love with someone who considers you a friend, you cannot force him or her to feel the same way toward you. Love is not a forced emotion. People either love or they don’t.

Friendship is the blessing of having people you can spend time with. People who share some interests with you, and whose company you enjoy. A friend is someone you can pick up the phone and call once a year to check in, say hello, and let them know you’re thinking about them. It doesn’t have to be a daily, weekly, or even monthly communication. But it’s someone you know will always welcome you into his or her life with open arms.

Some say "Love is friendship with a bonus". It is having that special friend that you want to spend every waking moment of your life with. It is not being able to imagine your life without that person. They are your best friend, your confidant, your soul mate. Love is being able to identify that one person you would want to grow old with, to spend the rest of your life with. You share the same interests, and support those that differ from your own. You wake up thinking about that person, and go to sleep dreaming about them.
Friendships may come and go. Love is forever.Here is a set of lines distinguishing one from other.

                           Friendship vs. Love


    Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust.
         Love is when you feel like you are the only two around.

    Friendship is when they gaze into your eyes and you know they care.
         Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart.

    Friendship is being close even when you are far apart.
         Love is when you can still feel their hand on your heart
         when they are not near.

    Friendship is hoping that they experience the very best.
         Love is when you bring them the very best.

    Friendship occupies your mind.
         Love occupies your soul.

    Friendship is knowing that you will always try to be there
         when in need.
         Love is when you will give up everything to be at their side.

    Friendship is a warm smile in the winter.
         Love is a warming touch that sends a pulse through your heart.

    Love is a beautiful smile to which nothing compares:
         A tender laugh, which opens your heart,
         A single touch that melts away your fears,
         A smell that reminds you of the tenderness of heaven,
         A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth.

    Friendship can survive without love.
         Love cannot live without friendship.

A simple drama between Love and Friendship! hope you will like it and get's your attention and pls, leave your comment about what do you really think! r you with the love gang or friendship gang. Enjoy!

Love: All the people searches for me and they dream to fall in love, I really can't understand what is ur purpose in this life Laughing ( love is making fun about friendship)

Friendship: I am the cure which all people needs me and I will stand by them! ( pretty confident)

Love: Cure!! You must be kidding me, I'm the cure, the happiness and all the feeling that every person needs!! how can you call yourself that you are the one which heals the people!!

Friendship: I'm the one who cleans up all the mess that you leave behind the two couples, I'm the shoulder where one of the couple's cry, I'm the one who give them the confident while they are in deep depression, and in most cases I live longer than you, love!!!

Love: No comments!!

P.S: One of my close friend told me this in brief, but I made it a lil bit more dramatic, in hope to get your attention.

So, with whom are you, Love OR Friendship!!


Thanks for your time..